Wednesday, May 24, 2017

How Pheromones Attract the Opposite Sex

We all wish that we could find a magic potion or spell that instantly attracts the opposite sex, right? Unfortunately there is no such magic potion however, pheromones can trigger certain reactions and attractions in both animals and humans. Think of it this way, how many females out there get turned on or some sort of blissful feeling whenever they get the scent of a good smelling man? Pheromones have been shown to cause sexual attraction in animals and insects so far and scientists are working on narrowing down the specific chemical pheromones that have the same effect on human beings. They know the effects that pheromones can have on the opposite sex, they are just not been able to narrow down 100% which chemicals arouse a specific reaction or feeling. These pheromones do not have a scent so we don't consciously realize that we are interacting with them or that they are having an affect on us unlike good smelling cologne or perfume.

We all secrete these amorous chemicals just like animal and insects do but sometimes we just need a little boost to help us secrete more of them and possibly catch the attention of the man or woman that we have our eyes on. 


True Pheromones

True Pheromones specializes in producing high quality pheromones for minimal cost and the best part is that they offer a 100% refund if you are not satisfied, no questions asked! You use the pheromones the same as you would cologne or perfume, applying them to your pulse points (neck, wrists) and let them work their magic. You have a few different types of pheromones to choose from and they even have a patch that you can wear for quick application. 

Have you ever wondered how animals somehow signal to the opposite sex in the wild and attract their mate immediately? This is due to pheromones. There has to be something to it otherwise how else can you explain what happens in the animal kingdom? They don't have texting or dating sites in the animal world to send a flirt to the cutie down the road.

If you want to try something new in an attempt to attract the opposite sex, give these pheromones a try. If you don't feel that they are working for you, you can easily get your money back, so you are not putting yourself at much of a risk at all. Try it out and then come back here and report your experience in the comments! Have you ever used pheromones to attract the opposite sex?

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Friday, May 19, 2017

My Story: Life With A Narcopath Part VI

I have decided that this story is taking entirely too long to get through!! I’m going to move it along a bit quicker but I think that once it’s finished I am going to turn it into an e-book with a lot more details. I would really love to get some more feedback on my story. It’s all real and it’s all a part of who I am today. In case you have just joined the party, you will want to start at PART I, otherwise you are going to be a little lost. Here we go for Part VI.




My grandmother and I had always been very close. I spent many summers with her as a child while my mother worked, and my grandmother was a second mother to me. We had a special bond that I don’t think she had with anyone else, including her own daughter (my mom). She was getting up there in years, at this time she would have been around 94 years old. We knew that her time was limited and that she could be gone at any time. When she was younger, my grandma was the sole owner of a big farm house with a lot of farm land. She sold the farmland when I was a teenager to move to a smaller house in town closer to us. We never know how much money she got out of the old farm but we knew it was quite a bit of money, and she always told us that she put it away in a special account that no one could touch even if she went into a nursing home, and when she was gone it was for my mom, her brother and me.


The more that Robert worked with my friend Kenny, the more Kenny disliked him. Kenny tried to talk to me about him but of course I didn’t want to listen. Kenny mentioned a few times how Robert talked about what he had planned to do with the money we got from my grandmother all the time and he straight told me that he thought Robert was just using me to get to my grandmother’s money. This bothered me a lot but no, there’s no way that Robert would do that. He he loved me and my grandmother.


Of course, once again, that job didn’t last long. I don’t remember what happened that time but he lost that job and moved on to another one. It got to the point to where when he would start a new job, I was always on edge and anxious because I knew eventually he would get fired and he always did, and it was always the same old story: never his fault, always someone else’s; he didn’t do anything wrong. I knew there was something wrong that he couldn't keep a job and it was constant stress on our little family because we were always behind on bills, getting shut off notices or evicted because we couldn't pay rent.


By this time, the kids were in school part of the day and I worked from home while he worked shitty jobs at pizza places for minimum wage or not much above it. Things were good for a few months, then everything started happening again. He slowly began distancing himself from me, he held back affection, he ignored me, he yelled at me about every little thing, he turned into the monster that I remembered from before. I became suspicious of a girl he worked with named Bethany. It was one of those female ‘gut instincts’ that told me something was up. I confronted him about it but he swore they were just friends and I had nothing to worry about and I needed to stop being so paranoid and jealous He was mean to me all the time. He blamed me for our money problems saying that it’s my fault because I didn’t have a.normal job but our kids were only in school half days and I had no vehicle to get a different job. I applied at a few different jobs but nothing came out of it. He made my life miserable, he tried to ruin special days for me including Valentine’s Day, and on Mother’s Day, he told me once again that he didn’t think he was in love with me any more....but he wasn’t sure. He slept downstairs on the couch while I slept in the bed, and every night I cried myself to sleep. It was like living with a stranger. Every day I had to put a fake smile on my brave face to make everyone else think I was doing just fine. I even put this face on in front of my mother. It was Hell having to deal with all of this on my own, faking my smiles and my jokes while fighting back my tears every single day.


Things kept getting worse and worse between us and I finally decided to tell my mother what was going on and ask her if the kids and I could move back in with her. Robert and I agreed to do 50/50 parenting again and not getting the courts involved. It was at the beginning of summer so the kids were not in school and the 50/50 thing wasn’t a problem. We hoped that by the time school came around we would have things figured out.


This time I was ok with the separation; there were no tears, no feeling like my life was crumbling, there was almost a sense of relief but of course I wanted my family to stay together. The kids went back and forth between houses which was rough on everyone. He got a different job working 3rd shift and the kids mentioned Bethany’s name once being at their house. When I asked Robert about it he said that Bethany was just helping him out by watching the kids while he was at work and they were just friends. The kids talked about her and her child a lot but they were too young at the time to know if anything was going on between them.


Eventually, Robert got kicked out of that house he was in and moved into an apartment above a store in a different town. I really didn’t think much of it at the time. Robert would be hot and cold with me. One minute he would ignore me and say he didn’t want to work things out, then the next day he would act as if he was ready to try to work on our marriage. We were separated for a few months and got back together in time for the kids to start back to school moving into a different house.


Once we got back together, things just seemed off at first. I was worried that I had made the wrong decision but eventually he came around and we were happy together once again. I told him that if this shit ever happened again it would be the last time, and there would be no more getting back together; it would be the end.


As usual, he still couldn’t keep a job. He had numerous jobs that only lasted a few months. I had suspicions about another girl at one of his other jobs but of course they were just friends and I was being overly jealous and paranoid. He would tell me stories about her psycho ex boyfriend coming to his job trying to start problems with her and he would have to ‘rough him up’ to scare him away. She even came to our house once when he was gone but I didn’t answer the door. Our marriage went through stages, it would be good for awhile and then he would become distant for a short while, then things would be good again. When things were bad he would be very mean to me. He would snap and yell at me all the time. I would get upset about him yelling at me and he would argue with me that he wasn't yelling and that I was just too sensitive. His family does a lot of yelling so I just thought it was something he was used to, and I was not. He would yell at me in front of his family, and his mother and sister would jump down his throat for yelling at me like that. He even did it in front of my mom once but I just tried to blow it off and act like it was no big deal but she knew it was a big deal.




After a year of getting back together, I decided to go back to school. I wanted to better myself and work on building a better future for my kids. I knew that the only way to do that was to get a college education. I went to a for-profit college for two years. For those 2 years, I was working from home, taking care of the kids, going to school and keeping up with homework and assignments. Most of the time Robert was a big help with the kids when I had homework to get done.


The year after I began college, my grandmother’s health declined significantly. Robert refused to go see her. When I asked him why, he said because he didn’t want to see her that way. She eventually passed away. That was a rough time for me but Robert was pretty supportive of me and helped me through it.. After she passed, things started to change again, and this was the beginning of the end.

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Saturday, May 13, 2017

A Male's Perspective on Online Dating with Mr. Downright Dating


I am very excited about this interview! I introduce to you Mr. Downright from Downright Dating blog. He is a blogger in London who tells some humorous tales about date experiences with women he has met on online dating sites. I thought it would be interesting to get a male’s point of view about dating, especially online dating. Be sure to check out his blog and read some of his dating stories.


How long have you been dating online?
I've been dating online on and off for a long time. Believe it or not I met my first ever girlfriend on bebo over 10 years ago! I was in a serious relationship which ended about 6 years ago and that was when I first started dabbling in online dating on plenty of fish. I actually remember it being discussed on a radio station and that is where I first heard of pof. Online dating would have been big taboo back then. I have used online dating sites/apps in between relationships sporadically ever since. In the past two years it has become a more prevalent way for me to meet people since I have very few single friends these days and don't go out as much.

Approximately how many actual dates have you been on via dating sites?
Crikey, that's a hard number to pin down. With my blog I have just reached a 14th first date and that is since November. I've been single for the past five years and been on a lot of dates in that time. I have dated plenty of people for several months throughout that time but nothing developed into a lasting relationship for various reasons, girls moving away for work etc. When I've been single I haven't always been bothered with online dating either, I go through phases of activity and other spells where I lost interest and delete everything. I'd say I have reached the 100 mark anyway. (holy crap, 100!! -- MeChell)

What things attract you to a profile?
Obviously the first thing that you notice is pictures but it is the content of a profile that can properly grab your attention. In terms of the pictures I personally like when a girl has a variety of pictures that illustrate she is active and adventurous as opposed to 10 bathroom selfies with the girls on the lash showing us what a stunning hun you are. In terms of the content of the profile a sense of humour always stands out hugely. Guys always love a girl they can have banter with. It is always nice to see a bit of effort made in a profile, it doesn't take long, you don't have to type it all the minute you join and it shows that you at least have some interest in using the site. Of course there are hot girls with blank profiles who get spammed with mails but they are also probably the type of girl who don't take it very seriously and will likely flake on you anyway. It is also good when a girl mentions some hobbies as you might have common interests or things which you'd like to learn more about. It also provides something to talk about. Lots of girls have fairly blank profiles with nothing to spark conversation, boring pictures and then moan when they don't receive interesting openers.

What kind of things keep you interested when chatting with a female?
You can always get a quick sense of whether a girl is interested in you based on their replies at the start of a conversation. If they actively ask questions about you and instigate conversation it shows a level of interest. If they don't really give you anything to work with and simply answer your questions and ask the same ones back it can feel like they are churning out responses and not putting any thought into the conversation. If I get that feeling I lose interest very quickly. I believe if a guy has options he will probably go with the girl who shows more interest in him and not just the hottest girl or the best option on paper. I'm not going to chase option A who hasn't replied to my last text when option B just asked me do I want to hang out at the weekend. Again, banter is always good and if a girl is fun to talk to then she will definitely hold your attention.

What are your turn offs when chatting up a female?
The no likey list is a lot bigger than the likey list. If a girl doesn't really engage with me then I would lose interest quite quickly. I don't believe in the chase when it comes to online dating. The vast majority of my dates occur within a week of initial contact. If the girl doesn't engage, she is probably not that interested, talking to too many guys to give one person much attention or is just flippant when it comes to online dating. If you are busy it is better to wait rather than sending half assed messages which imply you're not that bothered. If you are interested someone you should let that be known before they lose interest and find a date elsewhere. Other than that there are plenty of red flags with the main one being newly single girls. From experience it is never worth the time, newly single people never seem to know what they want, are there for the ego boost, or think they are ready for something which they aren't. Date 2 on my blog is a fine example of that.

What is your opinion on dating in 2017? Do you think most people are trying to “hook up” instead of actually dating and finding a relationship?
You get a lot of girls complaining that guys on these apps are only looking for hookups. You are going to get guys chancing their arm anywhere and you shouldn't expect online dating to be any different. You just have to accept that and disregard that portion of people. I believe that there are plenty of guys looking for relationships on these apps as well. What portion of the pie is that? Who cares! If one guy mails you for genuine reasons and he seems great then does it matter that 20 guys before him messaged you for sex? One thing I do see girls doing a lot is accusing guys of being f#ckboys. It is obviously there there are a lot of guys out there looking for sex. However, just because a guy only wants to have sex with you does not translate to him only wanting sex, it just means that he doesn't want to date you! At the start of my blog I alluded to three groups of girls; girls I would date, girls I'd hook up with and girls I want neither of those things with. One of my friends actually provided an example of this today. We were shopping and a very attractive girl was helping us with shirt sizes. We realised that her English wasn't very good. My friend said "I'm not saying that I wouldn't, but I liked her a lot more before I heard her speak." In other words, she's hot and I'd hook up with her but I wouldn't date someone with English that poor. If she had good English he would be more inclined to date her. Is he therefore a f@ckboy? Well apparently that depended on her!

I do think that the nature of online dating makes people very non-committal. There is this whole dynamic where I do like you and you seem nice, but what if a better option is right around the corner and I just haven't come across them yet. If I delete this app then I could be missing out on something great!? I'll keep it just in case...oh she's cute too! One thing I do feel strongly about is that online dating is making people seem very disposable in 2017. A few years ago if you broke up with someone you felt lonely. Now, if a relationship ends you can do a bit of online shopping the next day and book yourself a date for the weekend! If you don't like something I say or misinterpret it you might move on without giving me a chance. If I'm not free this weekend and you fancy a date you night just go and meet someone else instead. It is incredibly easy to have a bunch of people on the go at the same time. As a result, these new things called breadcrumbing and ghosting have emerged. Because these connections are made online people do not treat them with the same substance as connections made in person and as a result people have become very disposable.

In your opinion, why do so many men enjoy sending photos of their… sausages?
Men enjoy playing hide the sausage and they think about playing hide the sausage a lot. Men are also stupid. Clearly sending these pictures doesn't provoke the same excitement for women as it does for men. Girls even hate topless photos on profiles never mind anything else. I think it is probably a numbers game and if they get one positive respond from 100 attempts it's a win in their books. I'm not sure if these guys ever find those wins. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome to occur. If these men are all insane then there are a lot of dusty mickeys out there! I guess these guys are not very clued in because there are lots of girls that will bring you home after a date but if you messaged them and talked about sex they would cut you off there and then.

From my experience, approximately 9 out of 10 men on dating apps choose to start out a conversation with sexual talk instead of truly getting to know me. I’ve had a few men tell me that some women are just as bad. What has your experience been? Are a lot of women just looking for hook ups as well?
I think your experiences will depend greatly on the type of people you are directing your attention towards. As a guy (a clued in one) you definitely get a feel for how 'gamey' girls are and what they are probably looking for. Girls are blatantly not as bad as guys in the sense that they don't go on sending pictures of their assets to every guy they fancy (a man can dream). Undoubtedly you will come across a lot of girls who are not looking for a serious relationship right now. People travel a lot, some girls are extremely career focused, you'll find plenty of girls who are newly single or just not in the head space for or don't desire a serious relationship at this point in time. Quite often guys hold the trump card when it comes to relationships but girls hold the trump card when it comes to sex. That means that if a girl wants sex then sex is going to happen. I don't think that girls go on dating apps giving the game away. A girl doesn't need to make provocative comments or send nudes to get a guy to have sex with them. They just need to get a guy to go on a date and bring them home afterwards. I wouldn't say that there are as many girls looking for casual dating as there are guys, but there's still plenty!

Thank you, Mr. Downright for a very insightful perspective on online dating. Good luck to you and I look forward to reading about your future dates!

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